Friday, January 24, 2014

For the love of God, give the guy a break

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You can tell from his eyes - this is not a photo of a person who is happy with themselves. He already feels like a failure, he already feels alone, and misunderstood. For anybody who has ever had to wear this mask, you should understand. For the longest time now Justin has had to suffer the humiliation of having the world laugh at and degrade him. Treatment of him has been subhuman; so quick to judge and condemn in this barrage of ruthless animosity. If you couldn’t look into one’s eyes and spew that venom, then don’t do it across any media platform. Bullying is never okay. People forget that our celebrities are real people, and hurtful words affect them just as much as they affect anybody else. Do you really feel that such harsh criticism is helpful? Do you believe that Justin’s actions were childish? Is this how you would treat a child? For what purpose do we strive to make him feel like a worthless human being. People say, hey it’s just one comment, he’ll never notice mine. Can you not for one moment imagine being trapped in a room full of hard, scornful and sneering faces pointing cold fingers of judgement at you as they openly degrade and make a joke of your very existence. How humiliated and crushed you would feel. If you have ever been hurt by just one other’s words, I know you have the capacity to begin to understand the reality of such an experience. A room full was a modest venture to realize the scope of these circumstances; now perceive if you will the image of being uplifted onto a stage, and being surrounded by a mob of people with cruel, pointed fingers, calling out an endless torrent of unforgiving condemnation and ridicule, you are entirely branded in barbaric slander; relentlessly reminded of every perceived flaw and shortcoming, every wrong-doing and mistake you’ve ever made.
But this goes well beyond the mob. Justin Bieber is a global figure. An ocean of people are condemning and making a joke of a guy they don’t even know. How terribly cruel we are being to another living, breathing person. Look back on your life, I know that at some point or another you have been pained by the sting of hurtful words. From where do we get the idea that our celebrities transcend what is such a disheartening experience? And here we are carelessly tossing venomous rhetoric on the tabletop, dumping these cruel words at his doorstep where they will sting most.
Now I want to stress the fact that I am not defending Justin’s actions, what he did was wrong. But if you have ever experienced the pain of guilt and shame and humiliation, for the love of God, give the guy a break. Justin did something that was wrong, but he is no less deserving of respect than anybody else.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

January 19, 2014.

You're afraid to tell people how you feel because it will destroy them, so you bury it deep inside of yourself where it destroys you.

"Why do you like him?"

I don't know. He's just... I don't know.

Crush

Do not touch your body with bad intentions. Rub your belly when it is full. Stroke your soft skin. Hug yourself, even if it’s silly, because it feels nice. Pleasure yourself. Do not touch your body with bad intentions. Do not pinch at the fat on your stomach. Do not scratch at your skin. Do not hate the shell you’re encased in.

January 19, 2014.

“There are poems
inside of you
that paper can’t 
handle.
”
— Y. Z

January 19, 2014.

Maybe you’re so desperately looking for someone to love you because you don’t love yourself.
“Someone once told me that human beings have three dimensions: how you see yourself, how others see you, and how you want others to see you. The closer the distance between the three dimensions, the more at peace you are and the more stable you become.”
— Marwa Rakha (The Poison Tree)

January 19, 2014.

There are certain people who aren't meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to.

Matt Corby - Resolution




January 19, 2014.

Don't let it break you, no matter how hard things get, life goes on.

January 19, 2014.

We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, but to create something that will.

January 19, 2014.

Sometimes, we spend too much time thinking about someone who doesn't think about us for a second. 

January 19, 2014.

Let me get this straight. If you talk to me everyday and night, I'm obviously gonna get attached to you. Even if I never planned to in the first place, I will. So before you start getting close to me, make sure that you won't just suddenly leave me. 'Cause you know, that happens to me a lot.

"Ew, you like him?"

I hate when I like a guy, and someone says that to me. How rude can you be? I don't care if he isn't the "cutest" boy ever, he doesn't have to be. Just the fact that you don't even know him, and you said that. I like him for him. you might not think he's cute, but you don't see him the way I  do. I think he's perfect the way he is.

January 19, 2014.

Worry about your character, not your reputation. Your character is who you are and your reputation is who others tink you are.

January 19, 2014.

I learned something important last night, You shouldn't try to stop everything from happening. Sometimes, you're supposed to feel awkward. Sometimes, you're supposed to be vulnerable in front of people. Sometimes it's necessary because it's all part of getting up to the next part of yourself, the next day, you shouldn't be afraid of that. 

Pain changes people.